Thursday, July 23, 2020

How to Fake it When Youre Not Feeling Confident

How to Fake it When You’re Not Feeling Confident D? ??u ?v?r w?nd?r wh?t it is about some ????l? th?t m?k? them ?? ??nfid?nt?So ??m?l?t?l? ??mf?rt?bl? in th?ir skin and radiating such ???itiv?, ?h?ri?m?ti? ?n?rg??Yeah, me too.In f??t ??m?tim?? I w?nd?r, “wh? d??? h? ?r h?r think h?/?h? i?”?Well, I have ??m? t? realize th?? ?im?l? got ??nfid?n??.C?nfid?n?? In th? purest ??n?? i? kn?wing wh?t ??ur? g??d at, th? v?lu? ??u ?r?vid?, ?nd ??ting in a way that ??nv??? th?t to ?th?r?.The ??ntr??t of thi? we kn?w i? ?rr?g?n??.Arr?g?n?? t??i??ll? inv?lv?? believing you are b?tt?r in a particular ?r?? th?n you ?r?.Another i? l?w ??lf-??t??m whi?h inv?lv?? b?li?ving ??ur? less v?lu?bl? than ??u think.The closer your ??lf-??????m?nt i? t? th?t reality in th? middl?, ?nd th? m?r? you b?h?v? accordingly, th? ?l???r ??u are t? di??l??ing h??lth? ??nfid?n??.C?nfid?n?? really comes d?wn to ?n? ?im?l? thing.Owning it!  If ??u ?r? “?wning it,” it means th?t ??u’r? t?t?ll? ?nd ??m?l?t?l? at ????? with who ??u ?r? in every moment, int?r??ti?n ? nd ?x??ri?n??.Y?u m?k? no ???l?gi?? for b?ing ?wkw?rd, nervous, ?x?it?d, l?ud, ??ft ???k?n or other ??u’r? ju?t you.You r?di?t? ?h?ri?m?ti? ?n?rg? whether ?r not ??u h?v? ?n extroverted personality b???u?? you are g?nuin?l? ??nt?nt with ??ur??lf ?nd ??ur ?r???nt experience.Y??h, sure, thi? is ???i?r ??id than d?n?.But th?r? are w??? to achieve this and w? are going t? find out.WHY DO WE NEED TO LOOK CONFIDENT AT LEAST?   C?nfid?n?? is ?n? ?f th??? tr?it? th?t ??n become an ?th?r??l id??l th?t we ?ll think is g??d, but ask u? t? point t? th? specific r????n? wh? ?n??n? should want it ?nd we ??n only ??int t? vague h???th?ti??l?.Fortunately, ??i?n?? has ?ur b??k.Here are just a f?w w??? th?t t?ngibl? im?r?ving your ?wn self-confidence m?nif??t? in real w?rld b?n?fit?:A study published by th? Int?rn?ti?n?l J?urn?l ?f C??m?ti? S?i?n?? ?h?w?d that giving m?n some ??l?gn? im?r?v?d th?ir ??nfid?n?? ?n?ugh to b? r?t?d ?? vi?ibl? m?r? ?ttr??tiv? in ?h?t?gr??h?.Similarly, r????r?h?r? ?t Web ster University f?und something ?? ?im?l? ?? a ??nfid?nt dir??t ?mil? fr?m a woman was ?n?ugh t? ??t?h the attention of a potential d?t?.Th? im??rt?n?? ?f ??nfid?n?? in r?m?nti? r?l?ti?n?hi?? doesnt end ?t th? d?ting ?h???, either. Research ?ubli?h?d b? th? J?urn?l ?f P?r??n?lit? ?nd S??i?l P???h?l?g? ?h?w?d th?t m?n in ??rti?ul?r ??n have a tendency t? f??l w?r?? about th?m??lv?? or their relationship when th?ir ??rtn?r h?? a higher l?v?l of ?u?????.Of course, the m?r?l there ?h?uldnt b? that women ?h?uld ?u????d l???, but rather that, in those situations, m?n mu?t work harder ?n improving their ?wn ??nfid?n?? level.It shouldnt be a ?ur?ri?? that b?ing m?r? ??nfid?nt ?t w?rk ??n mean m?r? promotions.H?w?v?r, a pilot ?tud? ?t th? Univ?r?it? of M?lb?urn? found ??m? ??rr?l?ti?n b?tw??n ??nfid?n?? l?v?l? ?? early ?? ?rim?r? ??h??l ?nd ?u????? in th? w?rk?l??? as adults.Thi? d???nt ju?t ???l? t? the workplace, ?ith?r.A ?tud? b? th? Univ?r?it? ?f T?x?? showed th?t ?tud?nt? wh? r???iv?d s ome ?x?r???i?n of ??nfid?n?? in th?ir ?bilit?â€"?v?n while receiving criticismâ€"performed b?tt?r l?t?r ?n th?n those wh? were simply t?ld to aim f?r higher standards?Ev?n B?ing Ov?rl? C?nfid?nt Has It? B?n?fit?  The Univ?r?it? of Edinburgh and the Univ?r?it? of C?lif?rni?-S?n Di?g? found th?t in a ?t?nd?ff over a particular r???ur??, unl??? you were sure ??ud l??? th? fight, ?nd ?? l?ng ?? what ??ur? fighting f?r h?d v?lu?, b?ing ?v?r??nfid?nt w?? m??t often to result in ?u?????.Ev?n if ??u w?r?nt right, b?ing ??nfid?nt ??n help you get wh?t ??u want.H?r? ?r? a f?w m?r? b?n?fit? of gr??t?r self-confidence:  B?ing ??ur b??t under stress: Athl?t??, mu?i?i?n? ?nd actors will ?tt??t t? th? importance ?f a high l?v?l of confidence. Wh?n you’re confident, you ??rf?rm u? t? ??ur ??t?nti?l ?nd ??u want t? perform ??ur b??t wh?n it ??unt? th? m??t, wh?n under ?r???ur?.Influ?n?ing others: S?lf-??nfid?nt ????l? often influence others more r??dil?. Thi? h?l?? when selling ?n id?? or product ?r negotiating at work ?r h?m?.Having l??d?r?hi? ?nd ?x??utiv? ?r???n??: S?lf-??nfid?n?? plays a big part in l??d?r?hi? and ?x??utiv? presence. You ?r??t? such ?r???n?? b? h?w ??u think, ??t (including how ??u ??rr? ??ur body) ?nd u?? your voice.Exuding a m?r? ???itiv? ?ttitud?: When you f??l ??nfid?nt ?b?ut ??ur??lf, you b?li?v? ??u h?v? an im??rt?nt ?nd m??ningful ?l??? in th? w?rld, giving you a positive ?ttitud?.F??ling v?lu?d: Wh?n you’re confident, ??u kn?w what ??u excel ?t ?nd th?t ??u have value.Rising t? the t??: L??king f?r a ?r?m?ti?n? The m?r? confidence ??u h?v?, th? m?r? likely you ?r? t? b? ?r?m?t?d.Being sexier: Did you kn?w th?t confidence i? sexy?Reducing n?g?tiv? th?ught?: Gr??t?r self-confidence allows you t? ?x??ri?n?? fr??d?m fr?m ??lf-d?ubt ?nd negative thoughts ?b?ut ??ur??lf.Ex??ri?n?ing m?r? f??rl???n??? ?nd less ?nxi?t?: Gr??t?r ??nfid?n?? makes ??u more willing t? take ?m?rt ri?k? and m?r? ?bl? t? m?v? outside ??ur ??mf?rt zone.H?ving greater freedom f rom ???i?l ?nxi?t?: B???ming m?r? ??mf?rt?bl? being ??ur??lf r?du??? ??n??rn about what ?th?r? might think ?f ??u. H?w lib?r?ting!Gaining ?n?rg? ?nd m?tiv?ti?n t? take action: C?nfid?n?? giv?? ??u ???itiv? energy t? t?k? ??ti?n t? achieve your personal ?nd ?r?f???i?n?l goals ?nd dr??m?. The m?r? highl? m?tiv?t?d and ?n?rgiz?d ??u are, th? more lik?l? ??u ?r? t? t?k? immediate action.B?ing happier: C?nfid?nt ????l? t?nd to b? h???i?r ?nd m?r? ??ti?fi?d with th?ir liv?? than ????l? wh? lack ??lf-??nfid?n??.HOW T? F?K? IT WH?N YOURE N?T FEELING ??NFI****Remember, ??lf-??t??m and self-confidence ?r? tw? diff?r?nt thing?.Y?u can feel like you suck at everything you d? and ?till b? totally ??nfid?nt in getting th? job d?n?.And it w?rk? th? ?th?r w??, t??.Y?u can v?lu? ??ur skills, but m??b? ??u’r? ju?t n?t t?rribl? ??nfid?nt u?ing them around other people.The ?r?bl?m with that i? th?t ??m? ???i?l situations call for ??nfid?n??: giving a speech, for ?x?m?l?, ?r a job int?rvi?w.Wh?t?v?r t h? ???n?ri?, h?r? are a f?w thing? to k??? in mind t? ??m? ??r??? ?? confident wh?n ??u’r? ju?t n?t feeling it.Speak the Right Body LanguageB?d? l?ngu?g? i? subtle, but it ??n ??nd a ??w?rful m????g? with?ut you even realizing it.F?r ?x?m?l?, a f?w h?bit? will ?ut?m?ti??ll? ??ll ??u out ??u ?? l??king ??nfid?n??:Bad ???tur?: slouching, hunched ?h?uld?r?FidgetingCr????d ?rm?Swapping th??? ?ut with th? right body l?ngu?g? can imm?di?t?l? help ??u ?????r m?r? confident.Social psychologist Amy Cudd? t?lk? ?b?ut “high ??w?r ?????.” Sh? suggests m?v?m?nt? th?t ?r? more open, ??r??d out, ?nd t?k? u? a bit more r??m help ?xud? ??w?r.C?n?id?r th? “W?nd?r W?m?n” ????, f?r example (or ?n? ?f th??? other power ?????): th? ?lb?w? are jutting ?ut, taking up more space, ?nd th? feet are ??r??d ?ut. It’s a classic power pose.What’s more, practicing th??? “high power poses” can eventually h?l? you feel m?r? ??nfid?nt.Thi? i? wh?r? the tired ?ld ?hr???, “f?k? it ‘til ??u m?k? it ” r??ll? does ring tru?.Y?ur shoulders can be surprising indicators of ??lf-??nfid?n??, t??.As f?rm?r FBI counterintelligence ?g?nt J?? Navarro ??int?d out:“Ov?r th? ???r?, ?ft?r d?ing th?u??nd? of int?rvi?w?, one ?f th? things that I ?b??rv?d, which unf?rtun?t?l? h?d n?t been written ?b?ut in the literature, w?? h?w th? ?h?uld?r? b?tr???d th??? wh? l??k?d ??nfid?n?? ?r who were outright lying. I found that when ????l? ?r? un?ur? ?f wh?t th?? ?r? ???ing or they lack confidence, their shoulders tend t? r?fl??t th?t uncertainty”.  H? points ?ut that r?i?ing ??ur shoulders, in ?lm??t a ?hrug, ??n be a dead giv??w?? th?t ??u’r? uncertain ?nd n?t ??nfid?nt. In?t??d, ?t?nd up straight ?nd ?ull those ?h?uld?r? b??k.It h?l?? to ?r??ti?? t??.In preparing f?r a j?b int?rvi?w, for example, it ??n h?l? t? ?r??ti?? w?lking into a room t? g?t a f??l for ??ur ?wn b?d? l?ngu?g?.It might feel lik? a ?ill? thing t? do, but it ??n h?l? ??u g?t ??mf?rt?bl? in your ?wn ?kin.Master Eye ContactN?t ?n?ugh ??? ??nt??t can ?bvi?u?l? indicate a l??k ?f ??nfid?n??, but t?? mu?h ??? ??nt??t can make ??u look like ??u’r? trying too hard or come ??r??? ?? aggressive.Y?u w?nt t? m?int?in just th? right ?m?unt, but finding that ?w??t ???t really i?n’t th?t diffi?ult.A? a g?n?r?l rul?, tr? to m?k? eye contact 60 ??r??nt ?f the tim?.Of course, th?t’? g?ing to v?r? ?n th? ?itu?ti?n, but it’s less about the ?x??t percentage ?nd m?r? ?b?ut m?king ?ur? ??u’r? ?ng?ging with ??m??n? without ??ming ??r??? as ?v?rl? intense.It ??n h?l? t? ??k ?l??? fri?nd? and f?mil? h?w they f??l about your eye ??nt??t, too.That’s ?n ???? w?? t? find ?ut if ??u make too much or t?? littl?.For th? m??t part, th?ugh, we tend to m?k? l??? ??? ??nt??t when w? l??k ??nfid?n??.H?r?’? a tri?k t? help you r?m?mb?r: make a h?bit ?f noticing th?ir eye ??l?ur.Wh?n ??u m??t ??m??n? and want to come ??r??? ?? ??nfid?nt, pair their name with th?ir eye colour.In d?ing so, you’ll give th?m m?r? ??? ??nt??t.Smi leIf you have a gr??t ?mil?, ?h?n??? are ??u don’t think ?b?ut it mu?h.H?w?v?r, h?ving an imperfect ?mil? ??n cause a great deal ?f ?tr??? and ?nxi?t?.R????r?h h?? ?h?wn time and ?g?in th?t h?ving a beautiful ?mil? i? not ?nl? link?d to your ??lf-??nfid?n??, but can also in?r???? ??ur h???in??? in life.People who h?v? th?ir best smile ?r? m?r? ??nfid?nt, less anxious, ?nd enjoy lif? more.Often, ??lf-??t??m begins in ?hildh??d.While having ?n imperfect smile i? considered cute ?m?ng ?hildr?n, it ??n be hug?l? damaging t? th? im?g? ?f ?n ?dult.Having a ?ub??r ?mil? ??n im???t ??ur success, confidence, ?nd ?v?n your ???r???h?bilit?. A beautiful ?mil? ??n make ??u m?r? ?ttr??tiv? ?nd appear more trustworthy and approachable. Your smile ?ff??t? h?w ????l? ??r??iv? you.A gr??t ?mil? ??n h?l? ??u b? more warm ?nd ???n, while hiding your smile ?r h?ving an un?l????nt ?mil? can l??d ????l? t? be m?r? distrusting or less ?ttr??t?d t? ??u.A nice ?mil? can play a big r?l? in ?n?’? ?r?f???i? n?l success.A ?tud? ?ubli?h?d in th? P?r??n?lit? ?nd S??i?l Psychology Bull?tin d?m?n?tr?t?? h?w a nice ?mil? ??n b? a di?tin?t advantage in ?dv?n?ing ??ur ??r??r.In this ?tud? people w?r? giv?n a li?t of ?u?lifi??ti?n? ?nd the person with the ?miling photo w?? 45% m?r? lik?l? to b? chosen th?n th? non-smiling ?h?t?.This same study ?h?w? th?t people who smile in their ?h?t?? w?r? d???rib?d ?? m?r? ??n??i?nti?u?, confident ?nd stable than th??? in a n?n-?miling ?h?t?.Th??? are pretty ideal qu?liti?? ??u w?uld w?nt t? ?r?j??t in ?n interview, whether f?r ??ur ??r??r ?r ??ll?g?.An?th?r ?tud? of n??rl? 200 ?m?l???r? conducted b? researchers at the University of S?dn?? found th?t physical ?????r?n?? is m?r? im??rt?nt th?n ?r?vi?u? j?b ?x??ri?n??.A C?r??r Build?r ?urv?? ?f more than 2,500 hiring m?n?g?r? w?r? asked to li?t interview behaviours th?t most im??ir?d a candidate’s ?h?n??? f?r being hir?d. They di???v?r?d th?t 38% w?r? turn?d off b? lack of a ?mil?.A ?mil? helps convey th?t y ou h?v? confidence in yourself and not ?fr?id ?f what’s around ??u or what i? t? ??m?.Whenever ??u are l??king confidence, ?mil?, it helps.Learn the Components of CharismaC?nfid?nt people are often ?h?ri?m?ti? people; th? traits g? h?nd in hand.Whil? ??nfid?n?? i? f??u??d m?r? ?n ??ur ?wn h?bit? ?nd b?h?vi?ur?, ?h?ri?m? i? about h?w ??u tr??t and int?r??t with others.In short, you w?nt t? b? ?ng?g?d. Basically, charisma comes d?wn to thr?? things:B?ing present in th? moment with ?th?r?Exuding w?rmth b? im?l?ing g??dwillA????ring powerful b? ??ming across ?? ??m??n? wh?’? capable ?f im???ting th? world ?r?und youTh? two-second rul? can h?l? ??u with the fir?t ??int. Its ?im?l?: b?f?r? replying when it’? your turn t? t?lk, wait tw? seconds.For one, this ?h?w? ??u’r? listening t? ?nd processing what th? other ??r??n is saying.H?w?v?r, it ?l?? creates a ?ubtl? ?m?unt ?f t?n?i?n, ?nd when you reply, th?t ?h?w? ??u’r? in ?h?rg? ?f th? t?n? and fl?w ?f th? ??nv?r??ti?n, whi?h cre ates a ??n?? of power and ??nfid?n??, hitting on the third ??int.A?king qu??ti?n? is also a gr??t, simple w?? t? ?xud? w?rmth ?nd b? ?r???nt in ?n interaction with someone else. Int?r??tingl?, you’re also ??ntr?lling the conversation when ??u ??k a qu??ti?n, which ?g?in, ?h?w? ??w?r.Ch?ri?m?ti? ????l? kn?w how t? keep the conversation going, too.Avoid ?wkw?rd ?il?n??? with th? hi?t?r?/?hil????h?/m?t??h?r rul?.If ??u’r? not ?ur? how t? r????nd t? ??m?thing, ??n?id?r it fr?m ???h ?f those ?ngl??. As blog Dumb Littl? M?n explains:S?? ??u ?nd ??ur ??rtn?r ?r? ?n a r?ll?r coaster in a ???n?, and ??u ?udd?nl? h?v? no id?? wh?t t? say. Never fear! You ??n always r?l? ?n th? g??d ?ld HPM:  HISTORY â€" This r?mind? m? of th? l??t tim? I r?d? thi? coaster…  PHILOSOPHY â€" I HATE ????t?r? dud?! All the u?? ?nd d?wn? make m? w?nn? ?uk?. But I g? ?n ?n? every day t? ?r???r? me f?r th? ups and d?wn? ?f lif?.  METAPHOR â€" R?ll?r ????t?r? ?r? lik? ?ig?r?tt??…  R?m?mb?r, b?ing ?h?ri?m?ti? i s more ?b?ut h?w ??ur b?h?vi?ur im???t? th? ????l? around ??u.Sim?l? being ?r???nt ?nd making them f??l important ??n m?k? a hug? diff?r?n??. It ?xhibit? w?rmth and ??w?r, whi?h i? charisma in a nut?h?ll.Sound Like You Know What You’re Talking AboutOf ??ur??, if ??u want to come ??r??? ?? ??nfid?nt, ??u w?nt t? ??und lik? ??u kn?w what ??u’r? talking about, even if ??u don’t.A few qui?k ?nd ???? ways t? do th?t include:Av?id bl?nk w?rd?: “um,” “like,” “uh.”D?n’t jum? at the fir?t ?h?n?? t? speak. Take a m?m?nt ?nd think ?b?ut ??ur reply.T?lk ?l?wl? ?nd ??lml?.B???nd that, ??u w?nt t? ?m?h??iz? wh?t ??u kn?w.Thi? is ?l???i? j?b int?rvi?w ?dvi??.If ??u d?n’t h?v? th? b??t ?n?w?r t? a question, d?n’t try to li? ?r ??v?r it up, but fini?h u? ??ur answer with what ??u d? kn?w instead.For example, “N?, I d?n’t h?v? a l?t ?f ?ubli? ????king experience, but I ???nt a lot ?f time l??ding meetings at m? ?ld j?b, and that h?l??d me become ??mf?rt?bl? t?lking in fron t ?f a ?r?wd. Th?t w?? a ?h?ll?nging part ?f m? j?b, but I learned ?? mu?h ?b?ut how t? ?ut out fir?? in the ?r?????.”Thi? i? ju?t ?n? silly example, but you g?t th? id??.And it can w?rk with ?th?r ???n?ri?? th?t call f?r ??nfid?n??, too, lik? ?????h??, d?b?t??, ?r QA?.On? thing m??t of u? ?r? guilt? of i? tr?ing t? prove other ????l? wr?ng.It’? t?m?ting t? put ????l? in th?ir ?l???, but it ??n also make ??u ??m? ??r??? as l??king ??nfid?n??.It’? ?n? thing t? ?l??r the ?ir ?b?ut a qu??ti?n ??u’r? ??k?d, but dw?lling ?n wh? ??u’r? right makes it seem lik? ??u’r? tr?ing to ?r?v? ??ur??lf.Sometimes trying to b? confident wh?n ??u’r? not can come across ?? ???k?, but that’s only b???u?? ??u overdo it.Confidence i?n’t ?b?ut b?ing b?tt?r th?n ?v?r??n? ?l??, it’? just about h?ving th? assurance t? b? ?bl? t? b? yourself.So it might ???m a bit ir?ni? t? suggest ?r?t?nding t? b? more ??mf?rt?bl? in your skin. But th?r?’? ??m?thing to be ??id f?r th? ?li?hé, “f?k? it until you make it.”Sometimes going with the m?ti?n? ??tu?ll? m?k?? ??u f??l th?m.Quit ApologizingFor ??m?, it t?k?? w?rk to l??rn h?w to m?k? ?n ???l?g? even wh?n it’? d????r?t?l? needed, whil? others ??? “I’m ??rr?” w?? t?? ???il?.On the one h?nd, wh?n you do n??d to apologize f?r real, it will mean significantly less, ?nd, on th? ?th?r h?nd, you’re giving ?w?? your ?wn v?lu? every time you apologize unnecessarily.Th?r?f?r?, you must ?t?? ???l?gi?ing ?ll the tim?.You mu?t ?t?? ?x?l?ining yourself; why ??u say wh?t ??u say ?nd do wh?t you d?. It will ?n?bl? ??u to ?t?nd u? f?r ??ur??lf, have ??m? ??lf-b?li?f and stop ??ring so much what ?th?r? think.You’ll ?l?? b? gl?d to h??r that ??u ??n d? it with?ut becoming ?n ?rr?g?nt jerk.N?w there are tim?? wh?n a heartfelt ???l?g? is n??d?d, but wh?n u??d ??rr??tl? it m?k?? ??u f??l better, n?t w?r??.Thi? is b???u?? when a r??l apology i? r??uir?d, ??u feel it d??? in?id? and ??u want t? m?k? ?m?nd?.A truly ?in??r? ???l?g? ??n h?l? ??u b???t your ??lf-??t??m, b???u?? ??u ?r? tr?ing t? right a wrong and ??u kn?w ??u’r? d?ing the right thing.But f?r ?v?r?thing ?l??, just l?t it g?, ?t?? habitually apologising for ?v?r? ?m?ll ?nd insignificant thing.“S?rr?, ??n I ju?t g?t b?”.“Sorry, I’ve f?rg?tt?n your name”.“S?rr?, but can ??u pass m? th? k?t?hu?”.“Sorry, I know I look a mess, but I’v? n?t been f??ling gr??t”.Th?r?’? no n??d t?, ????l? d?n’t expect it and ??u certainly d?n’t owe it t? them.It does ??ur ??nfid?n?? h?rm.It’? ju?t ?n?th?r part of th? ?nxi?t? h?bit.S? whenever ??u ?r? n?t f??ling t?? ??nfid?nt, m?k? it a ?ri?rit? to ???l?gi?? l??? th?n u?u?l. It i? a ??n??i?u? ??t, ?? you can control it ?r ?t l???t f?k? it.Laugh at YourselfM??t ?f us h?v? in???uriti??, ?r f??l bad ?b?ut ?ur??lv?? because ?f ???t mi?h???.However, it’s n?rm?l to be im??rf??t it’? ?ur im??rf??ti?n? th?t m?k? u? humans.Usually, ????l? who ?r? ?bl? to l?ugh ?t th?m??lv?? ?r? th? optimistic ?n??; and ??timi?ti? ????l? tend t? be m?r? successful in lif?.Thi? is b???u?? ??king fun ?t ourselves contributes t? ?ur m?nt?l h??lth and helps lift ?ur m??d in th? f??? of diffi?ulti?? ?r ?mb?rr???m?nt.More im??rt?ntl?, it h?l?? us r??liz? our own weaknesses ?? w? kn?w whi?h ?r??? t? do better.An?th?r study indicated th?t joking about ??ur own mi?t?k?? m??n? ??u ?r? ?bl? t? m?v? on fr?m th?m.Thi? i? a ??r??n?lit? tr?it th?t i? beneficial to ??ur m?nt?l w?ll-b?ing, h?l?ing ??u ??rf?rm w?ll in ?tr???ful situations, ??ntributing t? ??ur g?n?r?l h???in???.S?, knowing h?w t? joke ?b?ut ??ur w??kn????? ??tu?ll? means ??u’r? h???? ?nd ??nfid?nt ?b?ut yourself â€" n? ?n? i? m?r? ?ttr??tiv? th?n a confident person!D?n’t worry ?b?ut losing r?????t fr?m ?th?r?, b???u?? ????l? actually ???r??i?t? it wh?n ??u laugh ?t ??ur??lf.L?ughing ?t yourself ?h?w? th?t ??u h?v? th? ??ur?g? t? d? ?? and ??u’r? b?ing r??l about your im??rf??ti?n?, m?king people think ??u ?r? likeable instead ?f cranky ?nd u?tight ?ll th? tim?.Y?u don’t n??d to t?k? ??ur??lf ??ri?u?l? all th? times, ju?t laugh ?b?ut yourself m?r?.Don’t kn?w how t? ?t?rt with th?t?Tr? thi?.L?ughing at ??ur??lf isn’t always ????, but ??u ??n ?t?rt with some past ?x??ri?n??? ?r littl? fl?w? in your.Tr? to und?r?t?nd yourself b?tt?r, think ?b?ut the things ??u’r? bad in.Think ?b?ut some ???t mi?t?k?? ??u m?d? â€" w?? it th? time ??u m????d up a d??um?nt with ?n?th?r colleague? Or the tim? you f?rg?t about ?n im??rt?nt ????intm?nt?In?t??d of ?riti?izing ??ur??lf ?ll ?v?r ?g?in, spin th? mistakes in a positive w??.Think of ??m? small details ?f that ?x??ri?n?? that ??u ?l?? find th?m ?ill? t? l?ugh at until t?d??.Just r?m?mb?r: it is human t? m?k? mistakes; and ??u h?v? to accept yourself just as ??u ?r?â€"? ??rf??tl? fl?w?d person.Learn t? l?ugh ?t yourself, ?nd you will b? ?? much h???i?r.Strike These Words from Your VocabularyWhen ??u u?? qu?lifi?r? lik? ju?t t?? oftenâ€"I ju?t w?nt?d t? check up on th?t reportâ €œ you m?? undermine h?w ?th?r people vi?w ??u ?nd ?v?n skew ??ur ?wn ??lf-??r???ti?n.In Jun? 2015, Bu?in??? Insider ran a ?i??? b? former Google ?x??utiv? Ellen P?tr? L??n?? explaining h?w ??rv??iv? th? word ju?t is with w?m?n in th? w?rk?l??? and wh? it can influence h?w ??nfid?nt ??u ???m t? others.Sl??n? Cr??l??? N?w York Tim?? ?rti?l? fr?m th? ??m? m?nth w?g?? war on the word ??rr? f?r similar reasons.Then th?r?? the f??t that ?v?ru?ing fill?r words lik? um, uh, ?nd, w?ll, lik? can ?ft?n make ??u ???m less sure ?f ??ur??lf.Th?r?? a l?t to be said ?b?ut h?w this kind ?f ?ritiquing ?f womens speech can ??t?nti?ll? b? ?r?bl?m?ti?, but its w?rth n?ting when ??u w?nt t? project ?? mu?h ??nfid?n?? as ????ibl?.Accept Compliments Instead of Deflecting ThemR??i?ting a ??m?lim?nt ?r ?????ting ?r?i?? fr?m ?th?r? wh?n we f??l negatively ?b?ut ourselves ?li?it? discomfort b???u?? it ??nfli?t? with our existing belief ???t?m.More ?ft?n th?n n?t, h?w r????tiv? w? ?r? to compliments i? a dir? ?t r?fl??ti?n ?f ?ur ??lf-??t??m and self confidence and d??? f??ling? ?f self-worth.If we h?v? ?mb?dd?d in our mind that w? ?r? trul? undesirable, h??ring a ??m?lim?nt ?b?ut h?w beautiful w? ?r? will f??l jarring ?nd inauthentic.If w? are ??nvin??d w? ?r? incapable ?f ?u????? ?r b?li?v? we’re unintelligent, someone lavishing us with ?r?i?? ?b?ut how successful ?r ?m?rt w? are ??n feel like a set-up for future disappointment.Thi? d??? not radiate ??nfid?n??, ?? wh?n?v?r ??u ?r? feeling l??? ??nfid?nt, be r??d? to ?????t ??m?l?m?nt?, it’? a g??d way to fake confidence b???u?? ??nfid?nt people u?u?ll? ?????t ??m?l?m?nt?, but also, it ??n help improve your confidence.D?n’t g?t comfortable blocking a ???itiv? gift.This gift ??n go a long way in ?n?uring ?nd confirming what you ?lr??d? know deep in?id?.It ju?t bring? it t? th? forefront ?nd h?? a ?tr?ng ability t? brighten ??ur d??.Do you think B???n?é r????nd? t? post-show ?r?i?? with, Aw, n?, ??ur? ?? ?w??t, but I r??ll? m????d up th?t ?n? step? N?, ?h? ?r?b?bl? ?mil??, ???? a gr??i?u? Th?nk ??u, ?nd continues ?n kn?wing th? ??m?lim?nt w?? 100 ??r??nt tru? ?nd th?t h?r mere ?r???n?? giv?? everyone ?r?und her lif?.B??i??ll?, th? secret to f?king confidence i? ??king yourself: What W?uld B??once d??Think Positive to Kill Negative ThoughtsIf you’ve ?v?r w?nt?d to do ??m?thing ?nd h?d t? fight th? littl? voice saying, “No this is h?rd, l?t’? n?t d? it” then you know wh?t negative self-talk i?.It’s th? v?i?? th?t t?ll? ??u that ??u’r? not g??d ?n?ugh, that ??u should ju?t ?t?? now ?nd ?h????? th? easier route.A? thi? v?i?? or n?g?tiv? self-talk gr?w? in ??nfid?n?? and strength ??u lose ??ur?, it z??? ??ur positivity ?nd dr?g? ??u d?wn.F?rtun?t?l?, the k?? t? ?v?r??ming thi? i? simple, you n??d t? think ???itiv?.Wh?n th? v?i?? ???? “n?” you say “yes”, ??u ignore the n?g?tiv? and ?v?rrid? it with th? ???itiv?.H?w ??u want t? d? thi? ?x??tl? i? u? to ??u, ??u ??uld im?gin? ??ur??lf ?ru?hing th? n?g?tiv? th?ught?, thr?wing th?m ?w?? ?r turning th?m int? positive thoughts.Dress Like You Feel ConfidentIn a ?tud? published in J?urn?l ?f Ex??rim?nt?l S??i?l P???h?l?g?, m?di??l students who w?r? lab coats th?t they w?r? t?ld belonged t? d??t?r? ??rf?rm?d b?tt?r ?n tests than those wh? w?r? street clothes or w?r? told the (??m?) ???t? b?l?ng?d t? artists.Th?r? i? a dir??t correlation b?tw??n wh?t we wear ?nd what w? think ?f our potential.Y?u might’ve h??rd the saying, “dr??? f?r th? job you w?nt, not th? job ??u have.”W?ll if it’? ??nfid?n?? we ???k (?nd d?n’t w? ?ll?), th?n wh? not dr??? the ??rt?Y?u can u?? style ?? ?n? ?f th? m?n? t??l? t? boost ??ur self-confidence.So when you find yourself looking thr?ugh ??ur ?l???t to g?t dressed in th? m?rning, f?r fr?m ?n? sort ?f l?b coats, h?r? are ??m? ti?? t? help ??u dress for your most confident ??lf.L??rn how to dr??? for ??ur b?d?  And I m??n r??ll? l??rn.Know what denim style l??k? b??t ?n you, what fabric is m??t fl attering, wh?t ?kirt l?ngth i? better f?r ??ur figur?, wh?t ?l?ng?t?? ??u best if ??u’r? petite, or wh?t br? ?iz? ??tu?ll? fits.S?m? goes for m?n.Embr??? ??ur favourite f??tur??Wh?t ?r? ??ur favourite ??rt? of your b?d??D? you l?v? ??ur l?ng l?g?, ??ur h?ight, ??ur curves?Find outfits th?t ?l?? up ?nd fl?tt?r these features, ?nd mask th? f??tur?? you dislike, t? show off wh?t you w?nt people to see, and hid? what you d?n’t.Think about a tim? wh?n ??u f?lt g??d in ?n ?utfitTry t? r?m?mb?r ?n ?????i?n wh?n you f?lt great in wh?t ??u w?r?.M??b? it was a ?undr??? ?t a summer w?dding ?r a fitt?d bl?z?r at a board m??ting.Think ?b?ut wh? ??u f?lt good in that.W?? it a flattering n??klin?? Did ??u like the length? W?? it th? fabric ?r th? colour?Remember what it w?? th?t m?d? ??u f??l g??d ?b?ut th?t ?utfit, ?nd im?l?m?nt th?t aspect into th? rest ?f your w?rdr?b?. If ??u lik?d the h?lt?r n??klin? of the sundress, don’t tr? t? f?r?? ??ur??lf int? a ?tr??l??? dr??? f?r a f?n?? ?????i? n.O?t for an ?v?ning gown with th? halter n??klin? th?t m?d? ??u feel g??d b?f?r?, ?nd ??u’r? b?und to f??l good ?g?in.Define ??ur style  Th? most im??rt?nt ???r?t for ??nfid?n?? i? simply t? be tru? t? ??ur??lf ?nd ???r??i?t? ??ur uni?u?n???.This i? the ???? for dr???ing ?? w?ll. Instead of ?tt?m?ting t? ?mul?t? what’s tr?nd? ?r ??m??n? else’s ?t?l?, kn?w wh?t ??u lik?, b?th ?n ??ur??lf ?nd on ?th?r people.Finding a ?ign?tur? ?t?l? will h?l? you make ?v?r? ?utfit ??u w??r ??r??n?l, so th?t ??u f??l confident showing th? w?rld (?r ??ur b??? ?r fri?nd) who ??u are.B?tt?m line, ??ur fir?t concern wh?n getting dr????d should b? t? ?m??w?r yourself. Im?r???ing ?th?r? i? ju?t a by-product.WHAT’S THE DIFFERENCE BETWEEN REAL CONFIDENCE AND FAKE CONFIDENCE?  In th? context ?f wh?t w? are talking ?b?ut, r??l confidence is “a f??ling ?f ??lf-???ur?n?? ?ri?ing fr?m ?n?’? ???r??i?ti?n ?f one’s own ?biliti?? ?r qu?liti??.” As in th? ??nt?n??, “she’s brimming with confidence!â €F?k? confidence is ?r?t?nding t? have ??lf-???ur?n?? ?v?r ?n?’? ?wn ?biliti?? or qu?liti??.Th? k?? word is “pretending.”When you have to f?k? ??nfid?n?? you d?n’t r??ll? b?li?v? ??u’r? good at wh?t ??u’r? d?ing or th?t ??u ??????? th??? personal “qu?liti??.”Th? ?d?g?, “f?k? it till ??u m?k? it” has a ring ?f truth.Thi? ?h?n?m?n?n ?f fir?t n?t h?ving confidence ?nd th?n somehow, thr?ugh imm?r?ing ??ur??lf in th? “thing”, ??u d?v?l?? confidence, works f?r some thing? ?nd some ????l?.Thi? method w?rk? when you ??n immerse ??ur??lf in th? thing you’re faking. If ??u ?r? ?bl? t? ???l? ??ur??lf for h?ur? u??n h?ur? ?n th? skill ??u want t? develop, th?n ???, ?t some ??int ??u do “make it” and g?in confidence.Thi? i? ?n? w?? to take “fake” ??nfid?n?? ??n turn it int? real confidence.But m?n? things in life th?t we w?nt t? b? confident ?b?ut â€" lik? ?ur??lv?? ?nd ?ur qualities â€" ?r? n?t ??m?thing w? ??n “immerse” ?ur??lv?? in.S?m? ?x?m?l?? would b? w?nting to feel ??nfid?nt that ??u are a good ??r??n, th?t you are a lovable person, and th?t you deserve good thing? to h????n to you.How d? you fake th?t till you b?li?v? th?t?Y?u ??n’t.At l???t not in the methods ?r?vi?u?l? ???k? about.I d?n’t kn?w ?n??n? wh? has f?k?d being “l?v?bl?” so that ?t some ??int th?? r??liz? themselves t? be truly â€" a lovable ??r??n. B???ting R??l S?lf-C?nfid?n??  Gr??m yourself: This ???m? lik? ?u?h ?n ?bvi?u? ?n?, but it’? ?m?zing h?w mu?h of a difference a shower and a ?h?v? ??n make in ??ur f??ling? of ??lf-??nfid?n?? ?nd for your ??lf-im?g?. There have b??n d??? when I turn?d m? m??d ?r?und completely with thi? one littl? thing.Dress nicely: A ??r?ll?r? of the first it?m above … if ??u dr??? ni??l?, you’ll feel g??d about ??ur??lf. Y?u’ll f??l successful ?nd presentable ?nd r??d? t? t??kl? th? world. N?w, dressing ni??l? m??n? ??m?thing diff?r?nt f?r ?v?r??n?. It doesn’t necessarily m??n wearing a $500 outfit, but ??uld mean ? ??u?l ?l?th?? th?t ?r? ni?? l??king ?nd ?r???nt?bl?.Know your ?rin?i?l?? and liv? th?m: Wh?t ?r? th? ?rin?i?l?? u??n whi?h your lif? i? built? If you d?n’t know, you will have trouble, b???u?? ??ur lif? will feel directionless. F?r m???lf, I tr? t? live the G?ld?n Rule (and fail often). This i? m? k?? ?rin?i?l?, and I tr? to liv? my lif? in ????rd?n?? with it. I have ?th?r?, but they are mostly in ??m? w?? related t? thi? rule (th? m?j?r exception b?ing t? “Liv? m? Passion”). Think ?b?ut your principles, ??u might have th?m but perhaps ??u h?v?n’t giv?n them much th?ught. Now think about wh?th?r you ??tu?ll? liv? th??? ?rin?i?l??, ?r if you ju?t b?li?v? in th?m but don’t ??t on th?m.S???k slowly: Such a simple thing, but it ??n h?v? a big diff?r?n?? in h?w ?th?r? ??r??iv? you. A ??r??n in authority, with authority, speaks slowly. It ?h?w? ??nfid?n??. A person who f??l? that he i?n’t w?rth li?t?ning t? will speak quickly, b???u?? h? doesn’t w?nt t? k??? others waiting ? n something n?t worthy ?f li?t?ning to. Ev?n if ??u d?n’t feel the ??nfid?n?? of someone who speaks ?l?wl?, tr? doing it a f?w tim??. It will m?k? you f??l m?r? ??nfid?nt. Of ??ur??, d?n’t t?k? it t? ?n extreme, but ju?t d?n’t sound ru?h?d ?ith?r.Increase ??m??t?n??: H?w d? ??u f??l more competent? B? b???ming m?r? ??m??t?nt. And how do you d? that? B? ?tud?ing ?nd practicing. Ju?t d? ?m?ll bit? ?t a tim?. If you want t? b? a m?r? competent writ?r, f?r ?x?m?l?, d?n’t tr? to tackle th? ?ntir? profession of writing all ?t ?n??. Ju?t b?gin t? write m?r?. J?urn?l, blog, write short stories, d? ??m? fr??l?n?? writing. Th? m?r? ??u write, th? b?tt?r ??u’ll be. S?t ??id? 30 minut?? a d?? t? writ? (f?r ?x?m?l?) ?nd th? ?r??ti?? will in?r???? ??ur ??m??t?n??.Set a ?m?ll g??l ?nd achieve it: P???l? ?ft?n m?k? the mistake ?f shooting f?r the m??n, and th?n wh?n th?? f?il, th?? g?t di???ur?g?d. In?t??d, shoot f?r ??m?thing much m?r? ??hi?v?bl?. Set a g??l you kn?w ??u can ??hi?v?, and th?n achieve it. Y?u’ll f??l g??d ?b?ut th?t. Now ??t ?n?th?r ?m?ll goal ?nd achieve that. Th? m?r? you achieve ?m?ll goals, th? better you’ll be ?t it, ?nd th? b?tt?r you’ll feel. S??n you’ll b? ??tting bigg?r (but ?till ??hi?v?bl?) g??l? ?nd achieving th??? t??.Focus on solutions: If you are a complainer, ?r f??u? on ?r?bl?m?, ?h?ng? your focus n?w. Focusing ?n ??luti?n? in?t??d of ?r?bl?m? is ?n? ?f the best thing? you ??n d? for ??ur ??nfid?n?? and ??ur career. “I’m f?t and l?z?!” S? h?w ??n ??u solve that? “But I ??n’t m?tiv?t? myself!” S? h?w ??n you solve th?t? “But I have n? energy!” S? wh?t’? th? ??luti?n?Ex?r?i??: G??h, I seem to put thi? one ?n ?lm??t ?v?r? li?t. But if I l?ft it ?ff this list I w?uld b? doing you a di???rvi??. Exercise has been ?n? ?f the most empowering ??tiviti?? in th? last ??u?l? ???r?; it will m?k? ??u f??l so much b?tt?r ?b?ut m???lf. All ??u h?v? t? do i? take a w?lk a f?w tim?? a week, and ??u’ll see b?n?fit?. St?rt t h? habit.Empower ??ur??lf with kn?wl?dg?: Empowering yourself, in general, i? ?n? ?f the b??t ?tr?t?gi?? for building self-confidence. You ??n do that in m?n? ways, but ?n? of th? ?ur??t w??? to ?m??w?r yourself i? thr?ugh knowledge. This i? ?l?ng th? ??m? v?in ?? building competence ?nd getting ?r???r?d … b? b???ming m?r? knowledgeable, you’ll b? m?r? confident … ?nd ??u become more knowledgeable by d?ing r????r?h ?nd studying. Th? Int?rn?t is a gr??t t??l, ?f ??ur??, but ?? are the ????l? ?r?und ??u, ????l? wh? have d?n? wh?t ??u w?nt, b??k?, m?g?zin??, ?nd ?du??ti?n?l in?tituti?n?.

Friday, May 22, 2020

Ida B. Wells and Her Anti-Lynching Campaign

African-American journalist Ida B. Wells went to heroic lengths in the late 1890s to document the horrifying practice of lynching blacks. Her groundbreaking work, which included collecting statistics in a practice that today is called data journalism, established that the lawless killing of blacks was a systematic practice, especially in the South in the era following Reconstruction. Wells became deeply interested in the lynching problem after three black businessmen she knew were killed by a white mob outside Memphis, Tennessee, in 1892. For the next four decades she would devote her life, often at great personal risk, to campaigning against lynching. At one point a newspaper she owned was burned by a white mob. And she was certainly no stranger to death threats. Yet she doggedly reported on lynchings and made the subject of lynching a topic which American society could not ignore. Early Life Ida B. Wells was born into slavery on July 16, 1862, in Holly Springs, Mississippi. She was the eldest of eight children. Following the end of the Civil War, her father, who as a slave had been the carpenter on a plantation, was active in Reconstruction period politics in Mississippi. When Ida was young she was educated in a local school, though her education was interrupted when both her parents died in a yellow fever epidemic when she was 16. She had to take care of her siblings, and she moved with them to Memphis, Tennessee, to live with an aunt. In Memphis, Wells found work as a teacher. And she resolved to become an activist when, on May 4, 1884, she was ordered to leave her seat on a streetcar and move to a segregated car. She refused and was ejected from the train.   She began to write about her experiences, and became affiliated with The Living Way, a newspaper published by African-Americans. In 1892 she became the co-owner of a small newspaper for African-Americans in Memphis, the Free Speech. The Anti-Lynching Campaign The horrendous practice of lynching had become widespread in the South in the decades following the Civil War. And it hit home for Ida B. Wells in March 1892 when three young African-American businessmen she knew in Memphis were abducted by a mob and murdered. Wells resolved to document the lynchings in the South, and to speak out in hopes of ending the practice. She began advocating for the black citizens of Memphis to move to the West, and she urged boycotts of segregated streetcars. By challenging the white power structure, she became a target. And in May 1892 the office of her newspaper, the Free Speech, was attacked by a white mob and burned.   She continued her work documenting lynchings. She traveled to England in 1893 and 1894, and spoke at many public meetings about the conditions in the American South. She was, of course, attacked for that at home. A Texas newspaper called her an adventuress, and the governor of Georgia even claimed that she was a stooge for international businessmen trying to get people to boycott the South and do business in the American West. In 1894 she returned to America and embarked on a speaking tour. An address she gave in Brooklyn, New York, on December 10, 1894, was covered in the New York Times. The report noted that Wells had been welcomed by a local chapter of the Anti-Lynching Society, and a letter from Frederick Douglass, regretting that he couldnt attend, had been read. The New York Times reported on her speech: During the present year, she said, no less than 206 lynchings had taken place. They were not only on the increase, she declared, but were becoming intensified in their barbarism and boldness. She said that lynchings that formerly took place at night were now in some cases actually perpetrated in the broad daylight, and more than that, photographs were taken of the atrocious crime, and were sold as souvenirs of the occasion. In some instances, Miss Wells said, the victims were burned as a sort of diversion. She said that the Christian and moral forces of the country were now required to revolutionize public sentiment. In 1895 Wells published a landmark book, A Red Record: Tabulated Statistics and Alleged Causes of Lynchings In the United States. In a sense, Wells practiced what today is often lauded as data journalism, as she scrupulously kept records and was able to document the large numbers of lynchings which were taking place in America. Personal Life In 1895 Wells married Ferdinand Barnett, an editor and lawyer in Chicago. They lived in Chicago and had four children. Wells continued her journalism, and often published articles on the subject of lynching and civil rights for African-Americans. She became involved in local politics in Chicago and also with the nationwide drive for womens suffrage. Ida B. Wells died on March 25, 1931. Though her campaign against lynching did not stop the practice, her groundbreaking reporting and writing on the subject was a milestone in American journalism. Belated Honors At the time Ida B. Wells died she had faded from public view somewhat, and major newspapers did not note her passing. In March 2018, as part of a project to highlight women who had been overlooked, the New York Times published a belated obituary of Ida B. Wells. There has also been a movement to honor Wells with a statue in the Chicago neighborhood where she lived. And in June 2018 the Chicago city government voted to honor Wells by naming a street for her.

Thursday, May 7, 2020

The Ethics Of The Copyright System - 1485 Words

The purpose of the copyright system has always been to promote creativity in society and protect the creator’s interests. In applying copyright laws to any creation, three basic guidelines apply. First is the fair return for a creator’s labor, second is â€Å"Fair Use† of the creator’s labor and finally the Progress of Science and useful Arts to further the public good. The application of these three guidelines in litigation for AM Records, Inc. vs. Napster, found that the rights of reproduction, and distribution had been violated, in effect upholding the copyrights’ of nineteen different music companies represented under AM Records name, this ruling had protected the music industries interests. However it would seem that the publishing industry would not be so lucky, litigation in Authors’ Guild vs. Google ruled that Google’s actions constituted fair use. 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Wednesday, May 6, 2020

Presentation Skills Free Essays

Presentation skills relate to us as a person, its what other people see as they approach us, for example appropriate clothes and a smart appearance and the welcoming with give them and our face expression, every single thing we do sends a message to them about us. 1. Body language – Using your body and hands to express yourself. We will write a custom essay sample on Presentation Skills or any similar topic only for you Order Now 2. Verbal and non-verbal – Verbal communication is when you make speech with another person and non-verbal can be done by body language and/or sign language. 3. Listening – Pay interest to someone or something in order to hear them. 4.Seeking clarifications – Looking for something clearer or easier to understand by giving more details or a simpler explanation. 5. Responsiveness – Being responsive is when you make a positive and quick reaction to something or someone. 6. Eye contact – Looking at the person, or people, talking to show you’re participating and paying attention to the conservation. †¢ Employers must be clean and tidy all time because it wouldn’t be a pleasant to be around dirty and unhygienic people. Body Language Our body language is the term given to the messages we pass on by our gestures, facial expressions, posture and our body positions. Gestures is used to communicate who is a distance away, gestures usually reveal our feelings , it is very easy for someone else to relies that we are nervous for example touching out hair or smoothing down your clothes. Every single thing we do gives someone an idea of what we are thinking for example, shrugging your shoulders which is inappropriate basically giving a impression that we don’t care. Another example when a student is being spoken to they look around gives us a message that they don’t care.Also if a customer in your business is tapping a foot or drumming their figures is a sign that they are getting impatient. Our body position tells others about you, †¢ Facial expressions gives away your thoughts and emotions. You can always notice if a person is surprised ,disappointed ,bored, joy and even sexual attraction with our eyes and facial expressions. It is inappropriate as a worker you are yawning or raising your eye brow to your customer which would give them you don’t like them, then that causes inconvenient arguments and fights. Your Posture displays your confidence and attitude, for example if you are a teacher you can not slouch and crossing your legs or arm s is a defensive positions. There’s different ways of what we do gives a straight forward message where as if you are leaning forward means you are interested and sitting upright and relaxed shows a good positive look. †¢ Your Body Positions tells others how you feel about them, its really like a relationship for example the closer you stand next to a person shows you like each other and other strangers would know you either are a couple or really good friends.It shows you are interested in them, sometimes when teachers nodding there head or shaking there head shows there agreeing with you or disagreeing. Presentation skills are important to customer service because it is a good start point for your organization to keep their policies customer policies friendly, because companies have to provide excellent customer service, this ensures that employees know what to do when they are dealing with customers, which is a success to the business. Good customer service attracts more customers and increases sales.It also improves the business reputation which means customers just through recommendations. Interpersonal skills †¢ Behaviour If you are a friendly person then you will usually be acting normal and behave in a cheerful and friendly way. It has been said if you enjoy your job and if you like working with people you will normally behave in a courteous and thoughtful way and respect their feelings. To be a good committed worker you can not cheat on your employer, tell lies, arrive late, leave early and also pretending being sick . ou would have to be mature about your employers decisions and not sulk in a childish way. †¢ Attitude Our attitude is influenced by the way we think, it more likely if you are depressed you would act negative, if you are fed up you will give up. Its about what you enjoy for example if you enjoy being around people then you person then you would be focused and motivated. You would have to be positive about your work and customers which would give an up beat image of the organisation. Interpersonal skills are the most important skill that anyone can have and should have to be successful. This skill is how people judge one another, Interpersonal skills are related to communicational skills but are more specific about an individuals behaviour and include co-operating, sharing, listening, participating, leadership, and negotiation. Interpersonal skills that you have in your private life is different to the way you use at work. Without acting professional or if you don’t show interest in helping your customers you would get fired by your employers because he or she wont be proud of your behaviour regardless how you feel personally. Communication skills Communication Skills Formal and informalVerbal and non-verbal Listening Seeking clarifications Responsiveness Eye contact Body language Use of business language Adapt communication to audience Presentational skills Invite commitment Regardless of what business you are in , a large corporation, a small company, effective communication skills are essential for success. You would need to speak to your customers politel y and have a nice smooth tone just the way you talk to your tutor and the way you would talk if you was in a interview. You would have to know when you should be formal and informal on the phone or speaking to your manager.Verbal communication is when you make a speech with another person and non verbal can be done by body language and sign language. Being assertive in listening and speaking will mean that your intentions are clear to others and you understand others clearly and correctly. You would have to speak clearly so that your customer understands. Also the pace of your voice which you speak it is not a good impression if you speak slow which will make employers think your shy or nervous. In a company you would not be able to speak slang around business staffs.Communicating with all the other organisers will help meet the organisation function more effectively as the business will run a lot smoother and everyone in the business will know what is happening, and what they have to do to keep the business running. Keeping a steady frame of mind is good communication and when a problem crops up, each area leader should get together and talk through the problems and come to some sort of agreement. It is important that staff prevent themselves appropriately and prepare their work area before the djz arrive and visitors. In life fm majority of customers are members of the public coming to advertise staff or radio or people that have interviews and because I was working at the reception area I was to be smartly dressed and also to be approachable to speak to this includes having good hygiene. It was extremely important that I had a positive attitude towards djs and my staff. It was important that the desk I was working at was clean and tidy before visitors arrive to provide a pleasant and sufficient enviorment to give the impression to the customers that radio station was looked well after. Dress CodeI was instructed by my manager to wear a smart blouse with smart trousers and shoes no trainers. Positive attitude While on my work experience I was expected to be professionally present. Posture I had to have a good posture which means sitting down and looking confident, I had to look interested and not bored by yawning answering the phone in rude way. Personal space It was important that I was a desk to p away from our Life Fm vistors when they came in, which is a comftable way for both side, First impression The first impression of life fm was it looked clean and staff didn’t look scruffy which looked like a successful organised business. How to cite Presentation Skills, Papers

Monday, April 27, 2020

Justice For All (Except Persons Of Japanese Descent) Essays

Justice For All (Except Persons Of Japanese Descent) Justice for All (Except Persons of Japanese Descent) America Land of the free and home of the brave. Land of the free Land of the free Funny that the land of the free would steal away the lives of 119,000 individuals simply because they looked different. Nothing like good old irony to bring a country together. During the late 1800s, there was a large rise in the immigration of Japanese to the U.S, much to the dismay of many American citizens. The Japanese have long been discriminated against in the U.S. People have thought they are sly, treacherous, cruel In other words, they were strangers. People, as a whole, fear the unknown. Individuals of Asiatic descent have been so singled out for so long for one reason: they look different. Almost 200,000 Japanese and Japanese Americans were evacuated and relocated during World War II. Reasoning behind this? Although there was no proof of any of this, it was said that the farmers, for example, were charged with poisoning their vegetables and with planting their tomatoes in such a pattern that they pointed to U.S. military objects from overhead. At the time, the government claimed that the threat was real and that this action was pure military necessity. Now we all know better. On December 7, 1941, the Empire of the Rising Sun, more commonly known as Japan, launched an air attack on the naval base at Pearl Harbor. Many people feel that this is what provoked President Roosevelt and our government to evacuate. Not so. Did you ever stop and think things through? I mean, really think things through? Franklin Roosevelt signed Executive Order 9066, which allowed for the evacuation of all West Coast individuals of Japanese ancestry, on February 19, 1942 a mere ten weeks after the bombing on Pearl Harbor. Could this nation really assemble enough living space for 119 thousand people in ten weeks? That seems a little far-fetched. Now that Ive got your attention, lets take this from the beginning. Japan enters the war. Almost immediately, the U.S. governments Federal Bureau of Investigations gets to work, looking for any suspicious individuals of Japanese heritage who could possibly mean sabotage. Thought to be a threat because they were so close to the enemy and they could communicate, Japanese on the West Coast were already seen as suspicious. 7 and 8 December, 1941 - Presidential proclamations were sent out, dealing with the control of and subsequent action against any aliens suspected of hostile intent or of action against national security. These proclamations were sent out the day of the bombing the same day. 10 December, 1941 - A report was made by a Treasury Agent to the Army authorities that, an estimated 20,000 Japanese in the San Francisco metropolitan area were ready for organized action. How could the bombing of Pearl Harbor possibly have had any effect on Executive Order 9066 when there were already orders out to discriminate? 26 December, 1941 - In a phone conversation between Major General Allen Gullion, the War Departments Provost Marshall General, and General John L. DeWitt, Commander of Western Defense Command, DeWitt says: If we go ahead and arrest the 93,000 Japanese native born and foreign born, we are going to have an awful job on our hands and we are liable to alienate the loyal Japanese from disloyal Im very doubtful that it would be common sense procedure to try and intern or intern 117,000 Japanese in this theater 30 December, 1941 Attorney General authorized the issuance of warrants for search and arrest in any house where an alien lived upon representation of an FBI agent. There had to be reasonable cause to believe that there was contraband on the premises. 5 January, 1942 The San Francisco conference takes place. General DeWitt announces that he can have the boundaries of the restricted areas fixed by the 9th. It is not until the 21st that he sends out his first list of names to Washington to be reviewed. Arizona followed on the 24th, with Oregon and Washington on the 31st. 4 February, 1942 The federal governments Office of Facts and Figures conducts a survey on the public opinion of

Thursday, March 19, 2020

Tumors and Other Lesions of Bone †Anatomy Research Paper

Tumors and Other Lesions of Bone – Anatomy Research Paper Free Online Research Papers Primary tumors of bone are relatively uncommon in comparison with secondary or metastatic neoplasms. They are, however, of great clinical significance because some grow rapidly and metastasize widely. Although tumors of bone have been categorized classically as primary or secondary, there is some disagreement about which tumors are primary to the skeleton. Tumors of mesenchymal origin that reflect skeletal tissues (eg, bone, cartilage, and connective tissue) and tumors developing in bones that are of hematopoietic, nerve, vascular, fat cell, and notochordal origin should be differentiated from secondary malignant tumors that involve bone by direct extension or hematogenous spread. Because of the great variety of bone tumors, it is difficult to establish a satisfactory simple classification of bone neoplasms. Clinical Findings Persistent skeletal pain and swelling, with or without limitation of motion of adjacent joints or spontaneous fracture, are indications for prompt clinical, radiographic, laboratory, and possibly biopsy examination. Radiographs may reveal the location and extent of the lesion and certain characteristics that may suggest the specific diagnosis. The so-called classic radiographic findings of certain tumors (eg, punched-out areas of the skull in multiple myeloma, sun ray appearance of osteogenic sarcoma, and onion peel effect of Ewings sarcoma), although suggestive, are not pathognomonic. Even a bone tumors histologic characteristics, considered in isolation, provide incomplete information about the nature of the disease. The age of the patient, the duration of complaints, the site of involvement and the number of bones involved, and the presence or absence of associated systemic disease- as well as the histologic characteristics- must all be considered for proper management. The possibility of benign developmental skeletal abnormalities, metastatic neoplastic disease, infections (eg, osteomyelitis), posttraumatic bone lesions, or metabolic disease of bone must always be kept in mind. If bone tumors occur in or near the joints, they may be confused with the various types of arthritis, especially monarticular arthritis. Specific Bone Tumors Tumors arising from osteoblastic connective tissue include osteoid osteoma and osteosarcoma. Osteoid osteomas are benign tumors of children and adolescents that should be surgically removed. Osteosarcoma, the most common malignancy of bone, typically occurs in an adolescent who presents with pain or swelling in a bone or joint (especially in or around the knee). Since the symptoms often appear to begin following a sports-related injury, accurate diagnosis may be delayed. Osteosarcoma can also develop in patients with Pagets disease of bone, enchondromatosis, fibrous dysplasia, or hereditary multiple exostoses. Osteosarcomas are treated by resection and chemotherapy, with 5-year survival rates improving from 15% in 1965 to 60% at this time. Fibrosarcomas, which are derived from nonosteoblastic connective tissue, have a prognosis similar to that of the osteogenic sarcomas. Tumors derived from cartilage include enchondromas, chondromyxoid fibromas, and chondrosarcomas. Histologic examin ation is confirmatory in this group, and the prognosis with appropriate curettement or surgery is generally good. Other bone tumors include giant cell tumors (osteoclastomas), chondroblastomas, and Ewings sarcoma. Of these, chondroblastomas are almost always benign. About 50% of giant cell tumors are benign, while the rest may be frankly malignant or recur after excision. Ewings sarcoma, which affects children, adolescents, and young adults, has a 50% mortality rate in spite of chemotherapy, irradiation, and surgery. Treatment Although prompt action is essential for optimal treatment of certain bone tumors, accurate diagnosis is required because of the great potential for harm that may result from temporization, radical or ablative operations, or unnecessary irradiation. NEUROGENIC ARTHROPATHY Neurogenic arthropathy is joint destruction resulting from loss or diminution of proprioception, pain, and temperature perception. Although traditionally associated with tabes dorsalis, it is more frequently seen in diabetic neuropathy, syringomyelia, spinal cord injury, pernicious anemia, leprosy, and peripheral nerve injury. Prolonged administration of hydrocortisone by the intra-articular route may also cause Charcots joint. As normal muscle tone and protective reflexes are lost, secondary degenerative joint disease ensues, resulting in an enlarged, boggy, painless joint with extensive cartilage erosion, osteophyte formation, and multiple loose joint bodies. Radiographic changes may be degenerative or hypertrophic in the same patient. Treatment is directed against the primary disease; mechanical devices are used to assist in weight bearing and prevention of further trauma. In some instances, amputation becomes unavoidable. Research Papers on Tumors and Other Lesions of Bone - Anatomy Research PaperGenetic EngineeringBook Review on The Autobiography of Malcolm XPersonal Experience with Teen PregnancyThe Masque of the Red Death Room meaningsThe Relationship Between Delinquency and Drug UseResearch Process Part OneRiordan Manufacturing Production PlanArguments for Physician-Assisted Suicide (PAS)Influences of Socio-Economic Status of Married MalesRelationship between Media Coverage and Social and

Monday, March 2, 2020

Release the geek! - Emphasis

Release the geek! Release the geek! Below are the correct and incorrect versions of some of the most commonly misspelt words. Can you unmask the criminal mistakes? They’ll get away with it if not for you meddling kids. Go on, let your inner geek out to play. Share this link and challenge your colleagues to a spell-off. You know you want to 1. neccessarynecessaryneccesary 2. separateseperateseprate 3. receivedrecievedreceeved 4. occuredoccurredocurred 5. definitelydefinately6.grammergrammar7.predjudiceprejudiceprejujice 8. minusculeminiscule 9. occasionoccassionocassion 10. proffesionalprofessional 11. accomodateaccommodateaccommadate 12. religeousreligiousreligous 13. harrassharass 14. questionnairequestionairrequestionnairre15. occurrenceoccurranceoccurence 16. mischiefousmischievousmischievious 17. embarrassembarassembarras 18. connoisseurconnoiseurconnoissouir 19. cemetarycemeterycemetry20.changeablechangablechangeible Once you have your score, why not leave us a message in the comments section below to let us know how you got on? And if you have any spelling tips youd like to share, such as mnemonics, wed love to hear them.